| Is your spouse, your teenager or your boss | | | | life. Once you understand your pattern, you can |
| pushing your buttons? It doesn't have to be that | | | | unlock your hidden potential to be your best self. |
| way. You can become the master of your love | | | | You can break free from self-sabotaging habits |
| relationships, work relationships and family | | | | you may not even be aware of. You can |
| relationships. You can bring out the best in others | | | | "rewrite" your life script and truly make the most |
| as well as in yourself, and enjoy healthy | | | | of what the universe has given you. |
| relationships. All you have to do is to get to know | | | | How do you respond to life? At your best, are |
| your archetypes and understand theirs. | | | | you constructive, outgoing and motivated? Are |
| Did you know that how you think, feel and relate | | | | you reserved, intuitive and caring? Do you mother |
| to others is programmed by patterns you | | | | everyone? When things don't go your way, do |
| automatically picked up as a baby? These | | | | you get angry or depressed? Do you get anxious |
| patterns consciously, subconsciously and | | | | in groups for no apparent reason? Is it hard for |
| unconsciously either bless or block every area of | | | | you to fit in? |
| life. | | | | Recognizing your archetypes helps you to |
| The best way to understand why you do what | | | | understand how you and others process and |
| you do in relationships, and why other people do | | | | share the experience of life. Then, you can work |
| what they do is to get to know your automatic | | | | to transcend your limitations by striving to access |
| coping patterns. These patterns are best | | | | and emphasize loving energies in any given |
| described through four archetypes that play out in | | | | situation. Doing so will make you more competent. |
| loving and unloving ways. | | | | The emphasis of loving energies fosters the |
| The first archetype to consider is the Loving | | | | emotional intelligence you need to be steadfast, |
| Father. This is the energy that seals us with | | | | kind, and authentic. It will bring out the best in |
| protection, direction, and self-discipline. The second | | | | yourself and in others so you can enjoy healthy |
| archetype is the Loved Boychild. It represents our | | | | relationships. |
| courageous and heroic side, as well as our | | | | Our archetypes are like a toolbox. We can draw |
| "can-do" spirit. The third archetype is the Loving | | | | upon the best archetype for every situation and |
| Mother. That energy provides us with inner | | | | person we come in contact with. This dramatically |
| nurturing, guidance and unconditional love. The | | | | transforms how we come across to others and |
| fourth archetype is the Loved Girlchild. She is | | | | also influences how they relate back to us. |
| where we expand our caring, intuitive, mystical, | | | | Generally, people who function from a strong |
| and most artistic nature. | | | | Father archetype pursue the law. They tend to |
| All of the problems in our lives originate from an | | | | have strong boundaries and seek to download a |
| imbalance, a clogging, or a distortion of these | | | | blueprint for every situation. When their Father |
| archetypes and their corresponding energies. Our | | | | energy goes out of balance and becomes |
| Loving Father energy is often usurped by Unloving | | | | unloving, they can become harsh and critical |
| Father, our inner tyrant, critic and controller. When | | | | toward themselves and others. |
| Loving Mother isn't strong, we fall back on | | | | People who express a strong Mother archetype |
| Unloving Mother and abandon or spoil ourselves | | | | live to nurture life. They love to guide and teach |
| and others. The energy of the Loved Boychild can | | | | others, and provide stability in any given situation. |
| be overrun by Unloved Boychild, which manifests | | | | When they are threatened, they respond by |
| as anger, rebellion and being over-controlling. The | | | | either going aloof or by smothering those around |
| Loved Girlchild's energy can be overcome by | | | | them with a spoiling mechanism. Either way, they |
| Unloved Girlchild, our inner victim-martyr complex. | | | | avoid further giving of themselves. |
| In 1990, psychologist Caroline Hanstke and Brian | | | | People who have a strong Boychild archetype are |
| Emmanuel Grey discovered that we filter life | | | | go-getters in life. They are highly competitive and |
| through these four universal energies. Once you | | | | do whatever it takes to reach their goal. When |
| can "read" these archetypes, you can change | | | | their archetype goes negative, they become |
| your circumstances and enjoy healthy | | | | overcompetitive, aggressive, and tend to run |
| relationships. It's like pressing the "reveal codes" | | | | over others. |
| on an old IBM computer. You tune into the | | | | People who have a strong Girlchild archetype go |
| underlying energy as to why people think, feel or | | | | with the flow. They experience life through |
| behave the way they do. Then you learn to | | | | serendipity. They are highly creative, caring and |
| speak the same energetic language, so that your | | | | intuitive. When their sensitivity is trampled, |
| relationship problems can fade away. | | | | however, the unloving side of Girlchild takes over. |
| Whether you are looking for marriage counseling | | | | They become victim-martyrs and experience a |
| or relationship counseling, dating advice, customer | | | | lot of anxiety. |
| relationship management, parenting tips, anger | | | | Everyone uses their four inner family archetypes |
| management or spiritual healing, understanding and | | | | in different conscious, subconscious, |
| working with your archetypes is the first step to | | | | superconscious or unconscious combinations. |
| wholeness. | | | | These combinations reveal a lot about our |
| Your archetypes consciously, subconsciously and | | | | personality. |
| unconsciously either bless or block every area of | | | | |