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Article #85: Create the Relationships You've Always Wanted

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Is your spouse, your teenager or your subconsciously and unconsciously either
boss pushing your buttons? It doesn't bless or block every area of life. Once
have to be that way. You can become the you understand your pattern, you can
master of your love relationships, work unlock your hidden potential to be your
relationships and family relationships. best self. You can break free from
You can bring out the best in others as self-sabotaging habits you may not even
well as in yourself, and enjoy healthy be aware of. You can "rewrite" your life
relationships. All you have to do is to script and truly make the most of what
get to know your archetypes and the universe has given you.
understand theirs. How do you respond to life? At your best,
Did you know that how you think, feel and are you constructive, outgoing and
relate to others is programmed by motivated? Are you reserved, intuitive
patterns you automatically picked up as a and caring? Do you mother everyone? When
baby? These patterns consciously, things don't go your way, do you get
subconsciously and unconsciously either angry or depressed? Do you get anxious in
bless or block every area of life. groups for no apparent reason? Is it hard
The best way to understand why you do for you to fit in?
what you do in relationships, and why Recognizing your archetypes helps you to
other people do what they do is to get to understand how you and others process and
know your automatic coping patterns. share the experience of life. Then, you
These patterns are best described through can work to transcend your limitations by
four archetypes that play out in loving striving to access and emphasize loving
and unloving ways. energies in any given situation. Doing so
The first archetype to consider is the will make you more competent. The
Loving Father. This is the energy that emphasis of loving energies fosters the
seals us with protection, direction, and emotional intelligence you need to be
self-discipline. The second archetype is steadfast, kind, and authentic. It will
the Loved Boychild. It represents our bring out the best in yourself and in
courageous and heroic side, as well as others so you can enjoy healthy
our "can-do" spirit. The third archetype relationships.
is the Loving Mother. That energy Our archetypes are like a toolbox. We can
provides us with inner nurturing, draw upon the best archetype for every
guidance and unconditional love. The situation and person we come in contact
fourth archetype is the Loved Girlchild. with. This dramatically transforms how we
She is where we expand our caring, come across to others and also influences
intuitive, mystical, and most artistic how they relate back to us.
nature. Generally, people who function from a
All of the problems in our lives strong Father archetype pursue the law.
originate from an imbalance, a clogging, They tend to have strong boundaries and
or a distortion of these archetypes and seek to download a blueprint for every
their corresponding energies. Our Loving situation. When their Father energy goes
Father energy is often usurped by out of balance and becomes unloving, they
Unloving Father, our inner tyrant, critic can become harsh and critical toward
and controller. When Loving Mother isn't themselves and others.
strong, we fall back on Unloving Mother People who express a strong Mother
and abandon or spoil ourselves and archetype live to nurture life. They love
others. The energy of the Loved Boychild to guide and teach others, and provide
can be overrun by Unloved Boychild, which stability in any given situation. When
manifests as anger, rebellion and being they are threatened, they respond by
over-controlling. The Loved Girlchild's either going aloof or by smothering those
energy can be overcome by Unloved around them with a spoiling mechanism.
Girlchild, our inner victim-martyr Either way, they avoid further giving of
complex. themselves.
In 1990, psychologist Caroline Hanstke People who have a strong Boychild
and Brian Emmanuel Grey discovered that archetype are go-getters in life. They
we filter life through these four are highly competitive and do whatever it
universal energies. Once you can "read" takes to reach their goal. When their
these archetypes, you can change your archetype goes negative, they become
circumstances and enjoy healthy overcompetitive, aggressive, and tend to
relationships. It's like pressing the run over others.
"reveal codes" on an old IBM computer. People who have a strong Girlchild
You tune into the underlying energy as to archetype go with the flow. They
why people think, feel or behave the way experience life through serendipity. They
they do. Then you learn to speak the same are highly creative, caring and
energetic language, so that your intuitive. When their sensitivity is
relationship problems can fade away. trampled, however, the unloving side of
Whether you are looking for marriage Girlchild takes over. They become
counseling or relationship counseling, victim-martyrs and experience a lot of
dating advice, customer relationship anxiety.
management, parenting tips, anger Everyone uses their four inner family
management or spiritual healing, archetypes in different conscious,
understanding and working with your subconscious, superconscious or
archetypes is the first step to unconscious combinations. These
wholeness. combinations reveal a lot about our
Your archetypes consciously, personality.






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