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How to Be Appropriately Pushy

One of the things that's often hard to used the opportunity as much as he could,
know is how and when to be pushy but then was completely respectful and
appropriately. In these hardscrabble gracious. It is also evidence that a
times, perfectly polite people don't letter works, especially when delivered
stand much of a chance of getting what under unique circumstances. Designer
they want. However, not enough can be Michael Kors was a store clerk, he sold
said for making yourself known in a Calvin Klein a ski jacket, and stuffed
decent and unobnoxious manner. The key is his design sketches into the sleeve as
to use your intuition and your brain, the jacket was en route to delivery. A
both at the same time, and pray for a documentary film director I know who
little luck. needed a quote from a famous director to
When Lazaro Hernandez was a fashion help her get grants pulled a similar
student at Parson's School of Design in coup. She found out where Woody Allen
New York, he had a chance encounter in an lived, then had a copy of her latest film
airport with Anna Wintour, editor in delivered to his door with a handwritten
chief of Vogue Magazine. In fact, she was note requesting a favorable comment. He
getting on his airplane. Lazaro wasn't so obliged.
sure he had the nerve to approach, but Everyone has to start somewhere, even the
one hour into the flight, he could stand rich and famous. So if you can approach
it no longer. politely, preferably through some other
Lazaro wrote a humble note on an airsick means than the front office, your efforts
bag, which explained that he was a will probably not be seen as pushy but as
fashion student who would soon be looking what one does to get a break.
for an internship. He noted that she Part of the reason this works is the
probably got requests like this all the honesty involved. You are telling them
time, but wondered if perhaps someone had what you need up front. So this is very
given her a chance at the beginning of different than talking up a potential
her career. He also wrote that he knew contact at a cocktail party with the sole
she had the power to help him. Then, agenda of having them look at your work,
trembling, he approached. or hanging out a health club frequented
Lazaro stood before Ms. Wintour's seated by a certain star so you can add them to
figure, and said her name. No answer. He your list of influential friends. Those
repeated her name several times. No would be considered inappropriate 'covert
answer. He even crossed the uncrossable agenda' moves that are really looked down
boundary and touched her arm. Still no upon by the rich and powerful.
reply. Finally, he left his plea under Too often we assume that the way to
her martini glass and crept back to his approach an industry or a leader is from
seat. Several months later, he received a the bottom, worming your way up through
call from a major designer who'd gotten the ranks. A much more effective approach
Lazaro's letter from Ms. Wintour with is just to go straight to the top, where
instructions that it was not to be you very well may connect with the person
ignored. A subsequent interview proved who can make everything happen for you.
that he had talent, and Lazaro was hired This is why letters are such a good tool
for his first internship. for approaching these people. They can
Lazaro not only had great luck to get on read it in their own time, they're not
an airplane with the most powerful woman too obtrusive, and if well-written and
in the fashion industry, he had the savvy delivered in a subtle but
to make use of the opportunity. He was attention-getting way, they can work
ready when his break came with a wonders.
portfolio of samples he'd worked hard on, Important people, just like the rest of
making it the best it could be. Then he us, do not like to be used. On the other
did the most important thing of all: he hand, most people do like to be helpful,
sent Ms. Wintour a thank you note, which and a direct request can be amazingly
prompted a fax from the woman herself effective.
saying she was glad it all worked out. ©2004 Suzanne Falter-Barns. Reprint
This to me is a fine example of permission available.
well-handled pushiness, in that Lazaro




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