| One of the most fun ways to get to know | | | | out a negative quality in the extreme in your life |
| people is through astrology. Even Albert Einstein, | | | | so you get really upset and frustrated. To truly |
| with all his scientific knowledge, said that he went | | | | deal with this negativity you feel about the other |
| to astrology when he wanted to know about | | | | person, you'll have to look inside to find your own |
| people. Each Zodiac sign has something profound | | | | similarity. When you do admit it, then you can |
| to teach us about each other. | | | | start to change. You can grab hold of your |
| Gemini Teaches Us About Similarities | | | | negative behavior, and transform yourself, come |
| Gemini teaches us if we want to know about | | | | into balance in this area of your life. |
| people, we need to find the similarities between | | | | What About the Other Person? |
| us and other people in our lives. The only real | | | | But what about the other person, what good |
| difference between us and other people at an | | | | does it do you when you are in the other |
| essence level is the qualities that we have | | | | person's presence? Once you realize this person |
| activated in us at the present moment and those | | | | was a mirror for you to discover this hidden part |
| that are dormant. Qualities are a neutral way of | | | | of yourself that you were in denial about, at least |
| saying virtues which some people reject, saying | | | | to its extent, you will feel different about the |
| that virtues belong to the realm of religion and | | | | other person. You could even have some |
| spirituality. By whatever name, virtues or qualities, | | | | gratitude for their mirror role in your life. Also, you |
| that's how we describe people or their intrinsic | | | | will feel compassion, as it's going to take some |
| worth. | | | | work for you to transform your negative |
| Who Do You Really Admire? | | | | behavior. Just because you found it, doesn't mean |
| If you admire another person, just for a moment | | | | you have overcome it. When you do though, |
| ask yourself, "What quality does that person have | | | | your vice will be transformed into a virtue or a |
| that I admire?" Then look for that same quality | | | | positive quality. |
| within you, no matter how small it is. And if by | | | | From Vice to Virtue |
| chance, it's dormant, hidden from your view, just | | | | Using the same example of an addictive vice or |
| know by being around the person you so admire, | | | | negative quality, let's follow that through by |
| you'll begin to mimic this quality before long, which | | | | transforming a vice to a virtue. First, being |
| will bring it into view. | | | | addictive, no matter how you look at it, is being a |
| Who Do You Just Abhor? | | | | victim; something out of your control or so you |
| Likewise, if you absolutely abhor something about | | | | think at the beginning. Any victim consciousness |
| a person, stop and ask yourself, "What part of | | | | though is just the beginning stage of a positive |
| my life do I exhibit this negative quality or vice as | | | | quality, imploring you to become your own hero. |
| well?" You may not see it immediately and may | | | | Otherwise, you'll swing to the other extreme and |
| even proclaim, "But I'm nothing like that." For | | | | become a villain to yourself or others, causing |
| example, the person might be a drug addict or an | | | | harm, and could even end up killing yourself or |
| alcoholic and you do not drink or use drugs. So | | | | others with your addictions. Victim or villain are |
| righteously, you think you are not like that person | | | | both negative qualities, the extremes, but right in |
| at all but if you search a little deeper, you'll find | | | | the middle is the hero part of you. And when you |
| you have an addiction yourself, it's just not that | | | | call on that part, you transform any negativity |
| addiction. It could be food, or emotional addictions | | | | into a positive quality. |
| such as out of control anger or jealousy, even | | | | Transform Your Ugliness into Beauty |
| mental addictions such as criticism or blaming | | | | Do not let Gemini go by without taking a pen and |
| others. | | | | paper or using your computer to make a list of all |
| Why Someone Negative Is In Your Life | | | | the people you truly admire and those you |
| It may be hard to get, but this person is in your | | | | absolutely despise. Beauty is what you are after |
| life to bring to your consciousness your own | | | | this astrological year, and this is the Gemini way |
| negativity that you have justified. It is so easy to | | | | of transforming any of your ugliness into beauty |
| see others yet so difficult to look at yourself. | | | | and awakening the dormant beauty in you that |
| That is why often you need a person really acting | | | | you are not aware of as yet. |