| In this article I look at ways that you can become | | | | significant people in our life. It can also be traced |
| so attractive to your partner that you become | | | | back to an avoidance of our gifts and spiritual |
| irresistible! I don't mean how you can become | | | | connections. To build your self-esteem you will |
| more physically attractive, but how you can | | | | need to heal these negative aspects of your |
| become more emotionally attractive. Although it is | | | | personality. You will also need to open your heart |
| important to have respect for ourselves, look | | | | again if you have been defending emotional pain |
| after our health and look our best, it is what we | | | | that was caused by the heartbreaks that you |
| project energetically to our partners, that | | | | have experienced in your life. My website and |
| determines how much they want to be with us. | | | | books give many tips and ideas about how you |
| All of us are drawn towards people who are | | | | can go about this. |
| positive, open-hearted and full of love. Such people | | | | If you build your self-esteem and return to your |
| will have high self-esteem - in other words they | | | | true state of being, your natural loving personality |
| love themselves. This isn't in some narcissistic | | | | will automatically shine out. In fact, when you fell |
| way, but in the way that they accept themselves | | | | in love with your partner this is exactly what |
| for who they are, and do not judge themselves. | | | | happened, and notice how much you were |
| Interestingly, our natural state is one of love and | | | | attracted to each other at that time. Remember |
| connection to others, and we become attractive | | | | that you do not need to work to become a nice, |
| when we become authentic and embrace this. | | | | successful, rich, beautiful or powerful person to |
| The problem is that most of us erect barriers to | | | | become attractive. All you have to do is get out |
| self-love and choose instead to attack ourselves. | | | | of your own way and become real. That is what |
| Sometimes our self-attack becomes so extreme | | | | attracted your partner to you in the first place. |
| that we cannot handle it anymore and start to | | | | Some of your shared needs might have caused |
| project it out onto the people around us. | | | | you to hide your true self but it is still in there. |
| Obviously, our negative behaviour then makes us | | | | Your partner fell in love with you just the way |
| very unattractive! | | | | you are, so isn't it time to find your way back to |
| Self-attack always comes from feelings of guilt, | | | | your authenticity? When you do that you will |
| low self-worth and a belief that we have failed | | | | become irresistible. |