Waiting as a Spiritual Practice

The capacity to wait, despite its verywe can accept the postponement of what our
ordinariness, can be a profound spiritual tool withhuman embodied self would wish to have happen,
which to dismantle the needs and pressures ofand allow our smaller self to rest in the embrace
both our ego and will. Important in this is the kindof the larger. Waiting allows us to practice
of waiting that takes place, for there are manydevotion in any area of life. It creates a
kinds, and not all of them are capable of releasingtransformational path through surrender. This path
the ego in a way that is beneficial to spiritualis not easy to follow, for the history of the ego
growth.being in charge has been a long one, and any
The kind of waiting that is transformative isefforts to move in a different direction is likely to
based on the capacity for surrendering our desirearouse complaint. No, this is the narrow gate by
to have things be the way our smaller self wantswhich those who choose to will pass, not through
them to be, if they are not in alignment with whatthe mastery of external life-circumstances, but
God and our higher Self wishes. This kind ofthrough mastery of the self alone.
surrender that overrules one's personal interestsThe rewards of this narrow way can be
is the opposite of what is currently popular as adescribed in one essential word - Love. Along this
path of spiritual development today, namely, away there becomes only one Thinker and one
path based on the principle that we create our lifeIntender, and that Thinker is the One who is the
through our thoughts and intentions.Source of all of life. This relationship, whose
The question here is: Who is it that we wish tomeans is surrender, is founded in Love. It is a
create our lives - our familiar self that is consciousrelationship that can begin at any time, at any
of having needs, wishes, and desires, or God's selfplace, and in any circumstance. It's basic prayer is:
that is individualized within our higher being but"Show me the way. Lead me and guide me in
that is not the same as our conscious mind-self?Thy light." This prayer does not disempower the
The place where intention comes from definesself as some feel in relation to the word
the difference between a life built on a certain'surrender'. It redefines who the self is, and seeks
kind of mastery - one that uses thought toto unite the lower self with the higher. This is
create desired effects in life - and a life in whichwhat makes the practice of waiting
the power of thought is turned over to God sotransformative.
that God's thoughts may direct our life and notSuch a practice does not have to apply to every
our own. This distinction is profound, yet in onearea of life, but it can. And it does not have to be
way not as substantial as it might appear, for thepursued deliberately, for there are many
factor of the creative power of thought remainscircumstances in life that find us in the normal
the same. Only the source of intention that is thecourse of events, making it unnecessary for us
creative force differs. In the second case, it is theto go looking for them. What the sacred practice
individualized aspect of Spirit that dwells withinof waiting involves is a willingness to use these
each of us that is what we surrender to. Thiscircumstances of life as steps along a spiritual
individualized Spirit, by whatever name it is called,path. Such a path has been carved out by many
involves the knowledge of oneness with theholy men and women of the past and it remains
Divine and it belongs to every child of God. Fromequally valid today as a path of ascendance. It is
this place of holiness, and to the extent that thisa matter of having the courage to embrace what
place of holiness is approached, the 'I' that createsis difficult, and to know that in the embracing, one
is no longer an 'I' that is separate. It is an 'I' thatis not sacrificing one's real self. One is releasing the
exists only as part of the greater Whole that isaspects of self that are less real in favor of those
God.that are more real, in keeping with the lines of the
Waiting, therefore, when life-circumstances requirepoem that say:
it, asks of us to make a choice with respect toLord, lead me from the less real to the more real,
which 'I' we wish to direct our lives. We can beFrom the finite to the infinite,
impatient. We can feel that life is treating usFrom death to immortality.
unfairly. We can feel optimistic or pessimistic. Or