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Article #177: Why Marketing Often Feels Sleazy (and How to Avoid It)

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I was recently teaching marketing to a say Yes, and if I don't, I say No.
whole flock of spiritual healers at the Marketing without the Jewel can feel
University of Spiritual Healing and manipulative, and "attractive" words
Sufism. often feel sleazy if your heart isn't
Now, these folks aren't slouches. Some of present. But, your Jewel solo without the
them are extremely successful corporate safety of a solid marketing message means
consultants, highly visible doctors used that your customers will melt away.
to addressing hundreds of people at Connect to your own unique Jewel. Then
conferences, a nationally published craft your marketing message to help your
spiritual weight-loss expert with a best prospects feel seen and safe, so
100,000 clients under her belt, and a they can trust the natural attraction in
variety of other practitioners, all of their heart.
whom have had a certain amount of success Your marketing? Keys to Safety
on their own. Marketing:
Yet, even these folks, many of them, when - The biggest thing that creates safety
confronted with trying to fill their own in any situation is when someone trusts
workshops we assigned them for homework, that you know who they are. If you don't
have been stumbling. "How do you create know them personally, the next best step
marketing that can possibly explain is to identify the Who and What of your
spiritual healing in a way that will target market:
attract people in?" It's a good question. Who: Demographic (observable
But... characteristic) plus
The truth is: you can't. No description Psychographic (belief or internal
of what you do can ever do it justice, identity)
and it certainly can't attract people in. What: The problem
But that's okay, because your marketing Example: Homeowners (demographic) who
language isn't there to attract people care about the environment
in. So forget about trying to attract (psychographic) who want a beautiful
people with your words. I'll tell you garden that doesn't take a huge amount of
what you will be doing with your words, water to keep alive.
in just a minute. A brand-new landscape designer who used a
First, understand that the main attractor line very similar to this in a party left
of your business isn't even directly that evening with three new clients,
visible, because it's the Jewel in your effortlessly. Her Jewel was attractive-
heart. I know it sounds woo-woo, but the Who and What helped them feel safe
haven't you had days in your business enough to hire her.
when you felt great, full, generous, and - Answering unasked questions
business flowed in seemingly out ofthe Put yourselves in the shoes of the
blue? And haven't you had days when you prospect, and see things from their
did everything "right" but you felt a perspective. Then, list all the questions
little off, and nothing seemed to work? that would come up for them about your
That's your Jewel in action (or own business. You may be surprised that
inaction). Your Jewel is the unique issues that seem very tangential to your
quality in your heart that makes you, and product or service may be very important.
your business, magnetically attractive. For instance, in an ad for a yoga studio,
An example from one of my workshops: a it never made clear what to wear to the
participant sunk into her Jewel through first class. Do you think someone might
my guided exercise "Unveiling Your not drop-in as a new yoga participant
Jewel." When she 'clunked' into it in her because they don't want to look foolish
heart (you know that feeling -clunk- when in front of the other Yogis and Yoginas?
you are in yourself deeply), and spoke Answer as many of these questions as
from there, we all felt tears in our possible in your marketing materials, to
eyes. I looked around the room and help people feel safe.
everyone was on the edge of their seats - Tell people what happens after they
listening, rapt, physically leaning buy.
towards her, and ready to buy and send Asking people to buy, without telling
her referrals. them what will happen next, is kind of
And she hadn't spoken one word of "sales" like leading someone up to the door of a
pitch. Nice, huh? party where they don't know a soul, and
So what are the words for? The words are asking them to open the door and step
there to create safety. Here's the inside. No way! First, I want to know who
process: Someone feels the truth and is on the other side of the door, what
guidance in their heart to do something- kind of a party is it, is there food, is
take your workshop, buy your oatmeal, it formal or informal? Is it a birthday
hire you for the job. What happens next? party and is a gift expected? Without
That's right, they doubt themselves. When these answers, most people, feeling even
have you ever trusted your heart on a big slightly shy, won't open the door.
decision right off the bat? If you are These are just a few pointers, but put
like me, it's fairly rare. First I get a into action, along with your connection
hit "Yes, that's right." Then I think to your Jewel, and you will have a lot
about it and doubt myself, "Maybe I'm not more people feeling safe enough to buy
right." Then I come to a decision. If I from you.
feel safe enough to trust my guidance, I






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